Discover your Confidence and step into You.
Confidence and communication coaching for Queer, Kinky, ENM/Poly folks who want hot sex, long lasting relationships, and never be afraid to show the world who they truly are!

Have you ever felt
Lonely
Stuck and unsatisfied in your relationships, felt lonely in friendships and community?
Insecure
Afraid to express your feelings, afraid to ask for what you want because you didn't have the confidence?
Neglected
Spent too much time caring for or prioritizing other people's needs over caring for your own?

Imagine a life where these
melted away
and instead you felt
Fulfilled
You find the partner(s) of your dreams, you have great sex regularly and feel supported by lovers and friends
Empowered
You know exactly what you want and how to get it, and are never afraid to ask for what you need.
Confident
You are your own best friend, prioritize your needs, and are never afraid to tell the world who you truly are.

Hi, I’m Fox
A few short years ago I was a completely different person. I had just gotten out of abusive relationship #3 and I felt like a shell of a human being. As I watched my ex walk out of my door I made a promise; I would never let myself become this empty ever again.
As I began my healing journey, I found that my fractures extended beyond my love life. I was drained by my career, terrified of my creative self, stunted and lonely in my sexual expression and had no idea how to feel safe in any of my interactions. I had compromised myself so much for others that I lost myself in the process.
This, in turn, shook my confidence in all aspects of my life, holding me back from pursuing a life I deeply desired and most importantly, denying my safety to express my queerness. In order to live the life I truly wanted, I had to reconnect with the genuine, inner me.
My coaching is centered around helping folks to reconnect with themselves and step into an empowered life that they love.
As a queer, poly/ENM, BDSM educator I bring a unique perspective to my coaching practice that creates a safer space for clients to explore new techniques and discover self expression. No matter who you are, I work collaboratively to help you gain the tools to connect with your inner most powerful self. I believe that healing is a journey, and I aim to serve as a gentle guide to support my clients along the way.

Embark on a journey
tailor made for You.
Week 1-3: Give your heart it’s stage
We gently unpack the pieces of your life that are causing you stress or holding you back. This is the space where you *finally* get to put down the heavy weight you’ve been carrying and begin to embrace a lighter, more authentic version of yourself.
Week 4-6: Fall back in love with you
We begin to lean into your strengths and help you reconnect with the exciting, powerful, beautiful person you are. You deserve love and care and have the right to TAKE UP SPACE *just as much as everyone else*. Your feelings and needs are valid, and this is where you get to identify them and start to develop the vocabulary you need to express them!
Weeks 7-9: Fill your cup
This is where the magic begins. In this module, we will create a robust set of tools, creating a strong foundation for you to re-enter the world confidently. Some Examples are identifying and practicing boundaries, learning to use your voice, dealing with social anxiety, stepping into a new gender identity, and learning to express your queerness and your desires openly.
Weeks 10-12: Embrace the new You
These weeks are about integration through supported practice implementing the tools we discussed in real time. We will reflect each week and set you up to continue all of our learnings confidently on your own as you return to the world and a new, more confident You.
Ready to take the first step?
Relationship with You
*Free!*
Confidence Boot Camp 5-day challenge!
A *FREE* guide to things you can start doing immediately to boost your confidence today!
Relationship with Others
Struggling with social anxiety?
My “Fear to Fearless” program provides perspectives and strategies to help overcome social anxiety in just 45 mins.
Relationship with You + Others
Ready to start coaching?
Join my 3 month coaching program individually tailored to help you fall back in love with You.
What’s it like to work with me?
