Fear to Fearless
Nearly all of us struggle with social anxiety, but what if you could live a life without it?
Have you ever:
Been at a party and afraid to talk to new people because you were afraid they wouldn't like you?
Stopped yourself from wearing an outfit because you are afraid of being judged?
Compared yourself to the other people in a social gathering and thought “I'm not good enough”
If this is you, then it’s time to turn “Fear” into “Fearless” conversation and understand exactly why:
You judge yourself when people are having excited conversations about topics you're not familiar with.
You feel invisible and find it hard to engage with the others in the room because you're not sure you’d impress them or they might not like you.
You feel insecure when you see your partner flirting with (or even just talking to) someone else.
You feel like people don’t seem interested in engaging with you even though you try.
You feel uncomfortable in your own skin, even in a body positive space.
You are afraid to ask for what you want (whether it’s play or conversation) because people might find you needy or uninteresting.
You avoid talking to folks you find attractive even though you *really* like them.
Everyone else seems to be able to have a good time in social spaces and you wonder why that can’t be you.
I will give you multiple effective strategies to help manage social anxiety better
In just 45 minutes.
In this Program we talk about and recognize social anxiety as a form of people pleasing.
The biggest cause of social anxiety comes from being focused on what others think, being worried that you won’t be liked or accepted. In turn many forget all of the already existing awesomeness they also bring to the table.
I will help you reconnect with your amazing inner you and give you a new set of tools to not only better cope with the effects of social anxiety, but also help lessen it’s existence over time.
How it Works:
Know how to better calm the judgmental voices that hold you back
Feel more confident to engage with others with excitement
Walk into a room with ease and be excited to show people who you really are
Fall in love with your own skin and shake what your mama gave you
Feel more secure when you're out with your partner (and maybe get to flirt with someone together!)
Be able to stop comparing yourself to others and know “I am awesome and everyone wants to meet me!”
Plus tons of other insights!
When you work with me you will gain more tools to:
The Fear to Fearless program consists of a brief questionnaire followed by a one on one 45 minute personalized session with Fox. The investment is $97. The results…Could be priceless.
Sound too good to be true?
Here’s what others are saying
-Ally C
“In a single 45 min session, Fox helped me understand the roots, triggers and impact of social anxiety in my life and gave me several new tools to manage it. I’m amazed at how quickly they were able to boost my confidence and reinforce my right to take up space. If you deal social anxiety, talk to Fox!”
-Erin C
“When I approached Fox about their coaching sessions for social anxiety, I was of course a bit anxious about the whole thing. Fortunately, with great tenderness and grace, Fox was able to quickly and confidently pinpoint what seemed to be going on for me. We then explored a number of ways to reframe and reconsider the ways in which I might approach and take part in future social gatherings. By the time we’d finished our session, Fox’s enthusiasm, confidence, and swagger had rubbed off on me. If you’re even a little bit socially anxious, do yourself a favor and reach out to Fox.”
-Stuart B
“In sitting down with Fox for my initial coaching session, I was nervous about how the process would go but they made their coaching method seem so natural, effortless and worthwhile.
Fox asked the right questions to get me to think about what I want and need from an outside thoughtful perspective in order to challenge myself to improve.
Once we concluded the coaching session, I felt much better and had a clear achievable plan of action to reduce anxiety in social settings. I am looking forward to our next coaching session!”
-Brian C
“My social anxiety was bad enough that I even had anxiety about coaching, but Fox was amazing at making me feel comfortable and identifying what was happening. Fox's guidance was instrumental in helping me identify and challenge negative thought patterns, and providing practical tools to manage anxiety in social settings. I am forever grateful for the support, guidance, and empowerment they have provided.”
Who am I and why should you trust me?
I am a queer, poly, dominatrix, BDSM Educator and coach and have had the privilege to be in this community for 9 beautiful years.
During this time I have worked with countless folks through coaching and classes to help bolster self image, build confidence and create the skillset for communication and self advocation. This helps folks better understand their social anxiety, and sets them on course to live a new, informed more empowered life.
On a personal note, I believe that everyone deserves to feel confident and comfortable in their own skin regardless of their gender identity, race or sexual orientation. I truly believe people have the capability to free themselves from shackles of the past and learn to love themselves and live the life they truly deserve as their fully expressed selves.
So, with that, I look forward to helping create a stronger, brighter more empowered, You.